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The Side Effects of Fear

The Side Effects of Fear
By Dr. Charles Stanley   
Fear obviously produces anxiety, but it also creates chaos in our lives and even affects those around us.
Fear stifles our thinking and actions. It creates indecisiveness that results in stagnation. I have known talented people who procrastinate indefinitely rather than risk failure. Lost opportunities cause erosion of confidence, and the downward spiral begins.
Fear hinders us from becoming the people God wants us to be. When we are dominated by negative emotions, we cannot achieve the goals He has in mind for us. A lack of self-confidence stymies our belief in what the Lord can do with our lives.
Fear can drive people to destructive habits. To numb the pain of overbearing distress and foreboding, some turn to things like drugs and alcohol for artificial relief.
Fear steals peace and contentment. When we're always afraid, our life becomes centered on pessimism and gloom.
Fear creates doubt. God promises us an abundant life, but if we surrender instead to the chains of fear, our prayers won’t be worth very much.
What are you afraid of--loss, rejection, poverty, or death? Everybody will face such realities at some point. All you need to know is, God will never reject you. Whether you accept Him is your decision.
The Bible tells us that God will meet all our needs. He feeds the birds of the air and clothes the grass with the splendor of lilies. How much more, then, will He care for us, who are made in His image? Our only concern is to obey the heavenly Father and leave the consequences to Him.









The Bible Says "Do Not Worry about Tomorrow" - How Do We Do It?

  • The Bible Says "Do Not Worry about Tomorrow" - How Do We Do It?   
    • Rhonda Stoppe    
     
    “Do not be worried about your life, as to what you will eat or what you will drink; nor for your body as to what you will put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing?” … Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own. (Matthew 6:25, 34)
    do not worry. Means not that should not think about or plan ahead but that we are not to be anxious. …Moreover, each day has too many unavoidable worries of its own for us to indulge in worries about the future as well.”
    The ESV Study Bible similarly explains:
    “If one makes the right choices (see vv. 19-24) there is (“therefore”) no reason that one should be anxious. Jesus gives two a fortiori (“how much more”) examples—“look at the birds” (v. 26), “consider the lilies” (v. 28)—to show that, since God cares even for the birds and the lilies, how much more will he care for his own. To be anxious, then, demonstrates a lack of trust in God, who promises that he will graciously care for “all these things” (v. 33; cf. Rom. 8:32). See also Phil. 4:5-6).
     The Matthew Henry Commentary on the Whole Bible (Concise) advises:
    “The conclusion of the whole matter is, that it is the will and command of the Lord Jesus, that by daily prayers we may get strength to bear us up under our daily troubles, and to arm us against the temptations that attend them, and then let none of these things move us. Happy are those who take the Lord for their God, and make full proof of it by trusting themselves wholly to his wise disposal. Let thy Spirit convince us of sin in the want of this disposition, and take away the worldliness of our hearts.”
    Anxiety over tomorrow’s concerns will rob you of the strength for today. Getting stuck in worry will steal your joy and render you ineffective for the work God wants to do through your life. If Satan can keep you immobilized by fear he can steal from you the zeal to serve Christ in this generation. Remember how the disciples responded after Christ was killed? After seeing their beloved Jesus crucified, their fear drove them into hiding. What if the disciples had become so consumed with worry that they stayed in the shadows until the day they died?
    Sometimes worrying about what others think of us can steal our zeal to serve Christ. What if Peter’s anxiety over his denial of Jesus or Thomas’ shame over his doubt stifled their testimonies for the rest of their lives. Would the gospel still have been proclaimed? Of course. But if they were imprisoned by worry, they would have missed out on all the incredible assignments God had for them. The same is true for you and me.

    Worry Plays Itself Out in a Number of Ways

    -Some people worry that God could never forgive them, so they don’t think they’re worthy to be saved or to serve Christ.
    -Parents fret over giving their kids everythingthey want or need. Forgetting the most important thing they can do for their children is to live a life so in love with God that it makes knowing and serving Christ irresistible to their kids.
    -Wives worry their husbands don’t love them enough. Husbandsfear their wives don’t respect them. So, they spend their energy holding one another emotionally hostage until the other gives them what they think they deserve. Only to one day find that their fear of mistreatment has driven a wedge between them and their spouse, creating a relationship characterized by manipulation and isolation. (For more read: Why Isn’t My Christian Marriage Working.)
Others fear financial ruin or want to appear successful, so they devote their lives to career and cash. Rather than blessing others with what they’ve been given, they hoard their wealth in fear of losing what they have earned.
-Some worry they won’t be able to retire so they spend their lives building their investments only to one day stand before God and realize that they invested in the wrong “retirement.”
Do you identify with any of the aforementioned worries? I know I do. Worry is not something that only happens to the weak or carnal Christian. It’s something that plagues all of us at different seasons of life. So, Let’s look at:

6 Practical Steps to Combat Worry

1. Pray
Often while facing worrisome circumstances Christians will pray, “Why God? Why me? Why us? Why now?” But this is not the right way to pray. Rather than pleading with God to show you why ask Him to show you how to walk through the trial in a manner that pleases Him and brings glory to Christ.
And remember, you’re not alone in your prayers. Romans 8:34 promises that Jesus, “…is at the right hand of God and is also interceding for us.” Just as Jesus told Peter He was praying for him when Satan wanted to sift him as wheat, you can rest in knowing that Jesus is praying for you too.
2. Focus on God’s Attributes
Even David, who the Lord referred to as a man after God’s own heart, wrestled with worry.  David cried out, “For innumerable evils have surrounded me; My iniquities have overtaken me, so that I am not able to look up.” But when David felt surrounded by evil, and his heart failed him in fear, he didn’t remain stuck in anxiety. Rather, David looked to God for his help. He prayed, “Be pleased O Lord, make haste to help me! Let them be ashamed” (Psalm 40:12-17).
David also combatted worry by remembering that God was for him no matter what man may try to do. He said, “In God I have put my trust; I will not be afraid. What can man do to me?” (Psalm 56:11).

e apple of the Lord’s eye and was confident that God was aware of his troubles. And David knew that God was the only One he could turn to for help in his time of need.
The same God who watched over David watches over your life too. Hebrews 4:16promises that we can “come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace to help in time of need. The reason David knew he could trust God was because David had spent a lifetime learning to know and love Him. The same will be true for you if you spend your life discovering the attributes of God through the pages of Scripture.
Because the best way to be victorious over worry is to know God’s character so well that when troubles arise, you’re ready to trust Him even when life doesn’t make sense.
3. Learn from Others
As a young wife and mother, I thought I was too busy to spend time studying the Bible. But when the anxiety of parenting weighed heavily on me and I looked to older women in my church for help. Rather than giving me a list of how to be a better person, they invited me to a Bible study.
My first thought was, These ladies don’t have a clue. I don’t need another Bible study. I need advice. I chuckle now because whenever I encourage young women to study God’s Word, they often respond to me in a similar manner. Fortunately, these women wouldn’t let me off the hook. They encouraged me to join their weekly study of the book of Philippians. While studying with these older women, my faith grew as they shared wisdom from their own stories and testified of God’s faithfulness.
And God’s Word began to transform my thoughts. Soon it became second nature to view life’s circumstances through a biblical lens. My husband noticed the difference and my parenting was different. Truth was washing over my mind exchanging worry for wisdom and pessimism for peace. As a result, I fell so in love with God through the book of Philippians that I’ve memorized much of it.

Philippians4:6, “Be anxious for nothing but in everything with prayer, supplication and thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace that surpasses all understanding will rule in your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.”
4. Be Aware of Satan’s Schemes
Christians who don’t focus on God’s Kingdom tend to pursue comfort, health and prosperity. So, it’s easy for them to believe false teachers who promise that God wants all of His children to be healthy and wealthy. If you hold to this belief you can expect a rude awakening when life doesn’t go your way.
Be aware, Satan has ruined countless lives by seducing them to believe God won’t let anything bad happen to them––only to later deceive them into questioning God’s goodness when trials occur. To guard against the enemy you must be aware of his schemes.
Ephesians 4:14 warns, “That we may no longer be children, tossed to and fro by the waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by human cunning, by craftiness in deceitful schemes.”
When Satan tempted Eve to distrust God’s motives, he got the foothold he needed to trick her into eating the forbidden fruit. And he wants to do the same to you so he can seduce you into rebelling against God (see 2 Corinthians 11:3).
After four years of watching my son have seizures, I recall how distressed I became. One day I told God, “I’m serving You and You won’t heal my son? I quit!” Thank God He brought me to repentance when the Spirit reminded me of a verse I’d memorized, “In everything give thanks for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you” (2 Thessalonians 5:18).
5. Focus on Eternity
Colossians 3:2 reminds us to set our affections on things above rather than things of earth. When your thoughts are on Christ and His Kingdom your eternal perspective will help you make sense of worrisome circumstances.
We’ve all heard stories of believers who glorified God amidst unthinkable trouble. We think, I could never endure such trials. But you’d do well to realize that in every generation God entrusts heroes of the faith to suffer for the sake of the gospel. God knows that a watching world cannot deny the power of Christ when they observe His servants focused on His Kingdom and His purpose––no matter what the cost.
When Peter and the other apostles had been beaten for sharing Christ we read, “So they departed…rejoicing that they were counted worthy to suffer shame for His Name. And daily in the temple, and in every house, they did not cease teaching and preaching Jesus as the Christ” (Acts 5:41-42).
The MacArthur Study Bible says, “Like doomed gladiators, [the apostles] were ridiculed, spit on, imprisoned, and beaten; yet, God glorified His Name through them as He used them to build His Kingdom.”
Before you dismiss the apostle’s courage as something unattainable, realize the same Holy Spirit that empowered them empowers you too–if you’ve surrendered to Jesus as your Lord and Master. And as much as God used them to proclaim His gospel in their generation, He wants to draw others to Christ through you and your testimony for His Kingdom and His glory.
6. Trust Jesus
Hebrews 4:15 says, “For we do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin.”
Remember when Lazarus died? Jesus didn’t come when Mary and Martha sent for Him. Rather, He waited until after their brother passed away. “Then Jesus said to [the disciples] plainly, ‘Lazarus is dead. And I am glad for your sakes that I was not there, that you may believe.” (John 11:14).
When Jesus arrived, both Mary and Martha mentioned that if He’d come when they sent for Him their brother wouldn’t have died. What was Jesus’ response? Did he chastise them for questioning His methods? No, instead John 11:35 says, “Jesus wept.”
David, the Psalmist understood God’s compassion when cried out, “You number my wanderings; Put my tears into Your bottle; Are they not in Your book? When I cry out to You, Then My enemies will turn back; This I know because God is for me” (Psalm 56:8-9)
This is the character of Christ. Even though He asks you to trust Him when life doesn’t make sense, Jesus feels your pain and grieves with you, even though He knows the good that will one day come from your trial. You can cast your worries at Jesus’ feet and know that He is praying for you; He is an ever-present help in your time of need. And you can rest in God’s promise that, in His timing, all things work together for good to those who love Him and are called according to His purpose (Romans 8:28).




















6 Types of Temptation Christians Face (from Joseph's Life) and Steps to Battle Them

6 Types of Temptation Christians Face (from Joseph's Life) and Steps to Battle Them    

  • Palitha Jayasooriya  
  •   Every child of God faces temptation. It’s a given fact. As we look at the scriptures, we see that Esau gave up his birthright for stew, Ananias and Sapphira wrecked their lives over money, Samson lost his anointing because of a lady, Saul lost his Kingship because of cattle, and the Prophet Elisha’s servant Gehazi lost his calling because of silver and clothes!
    1 John 2:16 says, “For everything in the world – the cravings of sinful man, the lust of his eyes and the boasting of what he has and does- comes not from the Father but from the world.”
    Whenever temptation comes our way, Satan will use it to target our faith, our character, and to wreck God’s plan for our life.
    Let’s look at temptations Joseph faced as Potiphar’s wife attempted to seduce him into sexual sin. It came at a time when he had found great success in Potiphar’s household and business. The story is found in Genesis 39:6-12 and it illuminates 6 types of temptation that can come against a child of God:

    1. Natural Temptation

    Now Joseph was well built and handsome – Genesis 39:6
    Each of us have natural desires that God has given us, including the desire for acceptance, sex, food, and more. The Bible says “Now Joseph was well built and handsome” (Genesis 39:6). He was an attractive, strong, young man and would have faced temptation like anyone else, for scripture says, “No temptation has seized you except what is common to man” (1 Corinthians 10:13).
Joseph was surely no exception to what afflicts common humanity, and he would have faced temptation many times. Being handsome, he probably would have attracted the attention of many ladies. One thing is certain, he was soon noticed by Potiphar’s wife. Joseph however, found his strength in the Lord.
Today, we too are tempted on every side through billboards, magazines, videos, pornography, and many other ways.
How comforting it is to know that Jesus can give us strength to face all temptation for Hebrews says, “We have one (a high priest) who has been tempted in every way, just as we are, yet was without sin” (Hebrews 4:15).
Yes, Jesus understands our temptations and He will help us through them. We need to seek His help daily.

2. Influential Temptation

After a while his master’s wife took notice of Joseph and said “come to bed with me!” – Genesis 39:7
This was sexual harassment in the workplace and it involved the first lady; the Chairman’s wife! She was a lady of great influence and would most probably have used her powers often against people. To therefore resist would have been difficult and dangerous for Joseph. But, resist he did, even though he knew well what she could do because of her influence. As we know, she exacted her revenge to the maximum (Genesis 39:20)!
Are you facing temptation because of some influential person? Is it in the office or through your boss? Is it in your family circle or in your circle of friends? Are influential people pressurizing you to take ungodly decisions? How are you coping with it?
On the other hand, maybe you are a person of influence. If so, are you using it to hurt others or to pressure them to do something that dishonors God?
Think about it, and remember that 1 Corinthians 10:3 includes the promise that “when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out.”

3. Promotion Temptation

No one is greater in this house than I am. My master has withheld nothing from me… – Genesis 39:9
Joseph had risen to a place of trust with Potiphar and been given full executive powers in Potiphar’s business enterprise. He clearly understood that promotion comes from the Lord (Psalm 75:6-7). But with promotion came new challenges as Joseph soon found out. His promotion caught the attention of Potiphar’s wife as he would have had to interact more frequently with her now.
God’s desire is to bless our work and this may well lead to promotion and success. When that happens, let’s be careful to handle the temptations that come with it, especially pride, greed, lust, compromise, and arrogance.
We may also want to please our boss and our company more than we please God. We could be tempted to give most of our time to find even greater success and to make more money, often at the expense of neglecting our family and our health.
Our integrity could well go out the window unless we let God stay in control of our hearts.

4. Persistent Temptation

She spoke to Joseph day after day – Genesis 39:10
Yes, some temptations hit us repeatedly, especially in our weak areas. Whenever our church is in a period of fasting and prayer, I find that good food seems to be around wherever I go! That’s persistent temptation.
Potiphar’s wife kept persisting ‘day after day’, hoping that Joseph would yield one day. Thank God, he didn’t.
Are you being tempted to yield to something that is coming against you repeatedly? How do you plan to overcome it? Are you seeking help, prayer, and godly counsel or even running away when needed?
There is a story about a man who repeatedly asked the Pastor to pray that the cobwebs in his life would be removed. After quite a number of such prayers, the Pastor got tired of removing cobwebs and prayed that God would ‘once and for all’ kill the spider that was making the cobwebs!
We have to put to death anything that comes against us repeatedly to make us dishonor our Lord.

5. The Perfect Setting Temptation

One day, however, no one else was around when he went in to do his work. She came and grabbed him by his cloak... – Genesis 39:11-12
The stage was ready with a perfect setting for temptation to overpower Joseph. No one was at home, Joseph was alone, and Potiphar’s wife was probably showing no doubts about her intentions.
Maybe the lights were dim, with romantic music playing in the background. To make it more difficult, she even caught him by the cloak.
Joseph, in response, may have taken his cue from the athletes of his day, because he followed their example. He ran!
When the setting is perfect for sin to flourish, we may make excuses saying that “even God would understand.” Joseph could have thought so, too. We may even say that “God allowed it to happen.” But the scripture says that God doesn’t tempt anyone. He will not lead us into anything that dishonors Him.
There is a story of a University student who had a good reputation for integrity, but blew it one day. When the disappointed Principal talked to the student in his office, he responded by saying that the Principal would probably not be able to find even ten students who wouldn’t have acted in similar fashion given the same circumstances. The wise Principal replied, ‘That’s true son, but you could have beenone of those ten!
The setting may be perfect to yield to sin, but we are called to please God in every such perfect setting.

6. Isolation Temptation

One day he went into the house to attend to his duties and none of the household servants was inside. – Genesis 39:11
Not only was Joseph alone in the house, but he was also isolated from his home and people. He would have been missing his family and childhood friends. He could have been lonely and in need of comfort, but he refused to sin.
Predators in the animal kingdom normally look to isolate their targeted prey from the rest of the herd when they hunt. Similarly, Satan is a predator who looks to attack and to devour the weak, the marginalized, and the lonely. Joseph was alone when the temptation hit like a whirlwind. You too will be attacked if Satan is able to isolate you.
Those who travel out of town or overseas for work, away from family, should be extra careful.
So, which of the above mentioned 6 temptations are you battling now?

Here are a few steps that could help you overcome these temptations:

 1. Don’t Battle Alone
Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed. – Proverbs 15:22

Find a trustworthy friend or a group you can be accountable to. Seek their advice, counsel, and prayer when needed.
2. Flee
Flee the evil desires of youth and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart – 2 Timothy 2:22 
This is the Apostle Paul’s advice to young Timothy and that’s exactly what Joseph did. (Genesis 39:12)
3. Watch Your Eyes
The Psalmist said, “I will set before my EYES no vile thing” (Psalm 101:3)
4. Be Careful of the Little Things
It’s the smaller sins that lead to the bigger ones. Telling little lies can lead to the bigger lies and being dishonest with small change may well lead to outright cheating.
5. Depend on God’s Strength Daily
Look for God’s strength daily through prayer (1 Corinthians 10:13), and for His escape route. As someone said, “If He bolts a door, don’t try to jump in through a window!”
May the Lord’s grace be with you as you face the minefield of temptation.

























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